in courting we are advised to truly....

[ute4ever]

Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.

[Archaea]

Men can do it in one place.

I will never figure women out in that matter. Study, marry, do and still they don't make sense.

Take a man and eliminate reason and accountability to find a woman. A perfect description no doubt.

[Archaea]

Originally Posted by non sequitur

A lot of people are downplaying the importance of sex in marriage, saying that in the grand scheme of things sex is just a small piece of the puzzle. That might be true, but to me bad sex is like a chronic toothache. It's not going to kill you and you can still function, but eventually it's going to drive you crazy.

My wife says that her father used to tell her that it's just as easy to marry a rich man as a poor man. I would modify that advice to say that it's just as easy to marry a freak in the bedroom as it is to marry a prude.

In Mormon society, how is this possible?

And until she's had sex for twenty years, how will she or you know. A woman's labido naturally subsides. A man's does as well; his is just 1000 times higher than hers to start off. So if his subsides 50%, it's still 500 times bigger than hers was when they first married.

I think it's easier to marry a rich mate than to marry a horny Mormon gal, because you won't know for 20 years if she's faking horny or really horny.

The first ten years don't mean squat. It the second and the third ten that reveal her horniness.

And yes sex matters but it's a dismal prospect to get all hyped about it, only to find out, you're one of the 5 in 6 who has a bad sex life for most of your life. So it's better to downplay it, sort of George Bushing the Bush issue.

[myboynoah]

Originally Posted by fuegote

#1. It's never bad for a man. It isn't. I don't think there's anything that exists in a man's vocab that equals bad sex.

Oh really?

How about pup-tenting it on Brokeback Mountain?

:shock:

Then agan, that's just my middle-of-the-bellcurve thinking showing through.

[fuegote]

LOL! Okay, i ammend my comment. There's no such thing as bad sex with your wife.

[myboynoah]

Originally Posted by fuegote

LOL! Okay, i ammend my comment. There's no such thing as bad sex with your wife.

Whew . . . . . Hey, why are talking about having sex with my wife!!!!!! :evil:

[DrumNFeather]

Is getting the thought in your head that ending your marraige is a viable option due to a lack of "fire" if you will in the bedroom. IMO if you give yourself that out going in, then ultimately you'll take it or at the very least, give it strong consideration. Maybe you won't cheat perse, but as you've noted, maybe you turn to porn or other such things to get your sexual satisfaction. It's just a dangerous game to play.

[NorCal Cat]

Originally Posted by grapevine

Steve Meyers would ban you for bringing this up on cougarboard.

That's because Steve Meyers lives in the Land of Oz. The rest of us in the real world, can have a discussion such as this.

[MikeWaters]

I've got a question for you guys that are a little older than me...

Is the notion that women get hornier after 30 true or not in your experience?

[Rickomatic]

Originally Posted by MikeWaters

I've got a question for you guys that are a little older than me...

Is the notion that women get hornier after 30 true or not in your experience?

I can only speak for myself, but it was closer to 35 before the 'switch got turned on.' Then I would say yes, she is as much as me.