How useful are the "Sorry, no, I can't pray" policies? - cougarguard.com — unofficial BYU Cougars / LDS sports, football, basketball forum and message board

MikeWaters · 10-13-2008, 02:18 PM

Probably most of us have seen it happen. A priesthood official or gospel doctrine teacher calls on someone to pray, and that person politely refuses, or says "sorry, I can't." The awkwardness can be profound or brief, depending on how the prayer-inviting person handles it.

We had a particularly awkward one yesterday in our young men's meeting (deacons, teachers, priests combined).

Worthiness is such a strange concept in many ways, given that we are all prone to sin. But the idea that worthiness is a black and white issue is strongly ingrained in Mormon culture.

Btw, the lesson prior to the prayer invitation was largely focused on worthiness to officiate in the sacrament, based on Elder Oaks talk. Just in case the boys who were banned from praying and participating with the sacrament, hadn't quite grasped it yet.

10-13-2008, 02:18 PM	#1
MikeWaters Demiurge Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 36,367	How useful are the "Sorry, no, I can't pray" policies? Probably most of us have seen it happen. A priesthood official or gospel doctrine teacher calls on someone to pray, and that person politely refuses, or says "sorry, I can't." The awkwardness can be profound or brief, depending on how the prayer-inviting person handles it. We had a particularly awkward one yesterday in our young men's meeting (deacons, teachers, priests combined). Worthiness is such a strange concept in many ways, given that we are all prone to sin. But the idea that worthiness is a black and white issue is strongly ingrained in Mormon culture. Btw, the lesson prior to the prayer invitation was largely focused on worthiness to officiate in the sacrament, based on Elder Oaks talk. Just in case the boys who were banned from praying and participating with the sacrament, hadn't quite grasped it yet.